The intent/purpose problem (& an appeal to @scobleizer)

Since Facebook bought FriendFeed several months ago, there has been much lamentation by the FriendFeed community. Reactions from members have taken several forms:
- Declaring their support for FriendFeed till the plug is pulled
- Continuing to post and participate as if nothing has happened
- Leaving “quietly” by just no longer using the service
- Spending their time posting about how FriendFeed is dead and everyone worth paying attention to has already left
Reactions #1-#3 are appropriate to various degrees, but reaction #4 is getting old fast. It’s insulting to the people who are still using the service actively and insulting to the whole idea of online community, and I would like to see it stop. I’m mainly making this appeal to Robert Scoble because he is the most influential person who is kicking FriendFeed while it’s down:
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Please, Robert, I know that you’re disappointed in what has happened to FriendFeed and you feel like you need to take out your frustrations on something, but it’s time to take your own advice and leave quietly if you’re going to leave. FriendFeed may not serve your particular needs anymore but your needs seem to be very specific, decidedly not mainstream, and difficult to comply to. That doesn’t mean that FriendFeed is not a valuable service to others with different needs. You don’t have to leave, but there’s no point in making things harder for the rest of us who support the service by trying to hammer the nails in the coffin while we are still pushing up the the lid for air.
You are actively fulfilling your own prophecy by chasing people away from FriendFeed and inciting people there to unsub and block you so that your feed is less and less interesting. And then you are insulting the rest of us by declaring that all the geeks have left when it’s your own efforts in sabotage (or lack of in pruning your feeds) that are making your experience worse, while claiming that you’re trying to spur someone into action to be FriendFeed’s new hero. But we don’t have that knight in shining armor to champion for FriendFeed and return it to its former glory. If anything, you were the most likely candidate. Now we just want to be left alone to use FriendFeed the way we are comfortable to using it. It’s time to stop the abuse.
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Yes, FriendFeed’s future is uncertain, even with vague assurances that it is not going away any time soon from its founders. And yes, there are frustrations because of the lack of attention to bug fixes, performance and innovation that were so much a part of the early days of the service. But there is still a community at FriendFeed, and a pretty cohesive one at that. Maybe it is a community that has a lot more “fluff” than Robert is looking for but that’s because it best serves a purpose that is not something that he is focused on: making connections on a personal level.
It’s all about your intentions online. Most intentions can be grouped into 3 categories: knowledge gathering, broadcasting and conversation. There are many services on the web that can potentially serve those intentions. It depends on your purpose as to whether or not a service brings you value. Scoble has talked about a “chat room/forum” service type, there is also a “blog/micro-blog” type, and a “knowledge repository/collaboration” type. In some ways these cross over, but they also have distinctions that make specific tools more likely to serve them than others.
The web started out as knowledge gathering tools for building archives. Websites, wikis, link repositories like Del.icio.us, an untold number of file archives, search, RSS and all the tools that bring it to you like GoogleReader… All that is the heart of the web. There is little personal connection in knowledge gathering tools though some of them have “social” aspects. They are not about community, but about sharing and collating information.
Blogs and Twitter (and Twitter clones) are about broadcasting. You post and presumably there are people out there listening and who might react to your post through commenting. You control all aspects of your accounts and who you interact with and therefore you are exposed to a lot less noise, but you also have a very limited audience, unless you are already popular. This model works fine for people like Robert, who, no matter what tool he picks, is going to have a lot of people ready to comment on his posts. But it can be extremely unrewarding for people who don’t already have a posse following them around. A lot of people don’t care: the model serves their intent of having a “presence online” and they are not interested in much conversation, just putting their own views out there.
Can some conversation occur on blogs and Twitter? Of course… but the conversation is a lot more limited and a lot harder to follow (especially on Twitter). If conversation happens it is more like the discussions in a lecture hall or classroom where one person is guiding all the other participants and seems to be less personal because of the inequality of the participants and dictatorial position of the poster which invokes the Snafu principle. Real conversation is the exception, not the rule for broadcast mediums.
Forums are about conversation. They are a place for people with a common interest to gather and share information or just share a bond based on that initial connection. Some services even support “Friend of a Friend” (FoaF) features that easily connect you to others who may have similar interests. There is a lot more drama, a lot more noise, a lot more fluff to wade through on forums but you also make stronger connections. When you interact with people through conversation (more than 140 character snippets) you actually get to know them. And you become friends, even offline. That’s the power and appeal of forums to a lot of people. It’s what makes tools that support it, like FriendFeed, more valuable to people who’s intent is conversation than tools like blogs or Twitter. For people who are looking to make those kind of connections with others, to seek out people who “get them” and who they can share their lives with (because such people may not be available to them in their physical location), conversation services are the best tool to support that purpose.
The beauty of FriendFeed is that it can really serve all three intents, if you want it to:
- If you want to use it as a knowledge gathering and archive tool you can create your own private room and share posts to it, clip web snippets to it or store links in it.
- If you simply want to broadcast, then you can use groups and set them up so you are the only poster. Only invite people that you want to hear from. You can delete comments you don’t like in your threads. It’s very similar to a blog. Your experience will be limited to only the people who you want to interact with (who reciprocate). None of that pesky FoaF stuff, but all the conversation limitations that blogs offer.
- If you want to use it as a forum, just create an account, subscribe to interesting people, and you’re ready to go.
I’ve said before that FriendFeed is not dead, it’s just an orphan. I stick by that assessment. Yes, there is a void in leadership for it right now, but it will find it’s own way and grow into a nice, healthy adult (a productive citizen, if not a super-star), if only people will stop beating it over the head. I’m constantly reminded of the plague scene in Monty Python and the Holy Grail. FriendFeed is saying “I’m not dead yet! I feel fine! I think I’ll go for a walk”. So quit trying to throw it on the cart!











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